“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.
— Albert Einstein
Beyond 'Fine': Unlocking Your Emotional Vocabulary
The Tug-of-War Within: Navigating Inner Contradictions
Perhaps we've experienced the confusion of loving someone deeply and harbouring strong resentment towards them simultaneously. How do we deal with ambivalence?
Perspective - The Path to Connection
The more we consciously work on suspending our personal narratives, the more space we create to see life through others’ eyes. This expansion of perspective is incredibly enriching for our growth.
Shed Old Identities to Find Yourself
Why do we cling to old identities? We miss new possibilities when we keep holding on to a supposed identity that's not aligned with our situation and true self.
Life Throws Curveballs - Finding Focus When Your World Shifts
Your best laid-out plan went awry. Now what? How can Focusing give you grace when faced with major turmoils?
The Burden of Choice: Navigating Life’s Toughest Decisions
Believing that there is only one right choice is a mental trap. The reality is that we have to continue to make choices again and again, and life is a path of all the choices.
The Expectation Effect: Thinking versus Feeling
How can we still hold a vision for a happy and content life while adjusting our expectations?
Change is Inevitable: Will you shape it or be shaped?
The known feels safe. Why change and venture into the unknown when the status quo, though imperfect, is comfortable?
The Choice Between Two Wolves: How to Respond Mindfully to Life's Challenges
Struggles are part of life. So, how can we respond to life’s challenges without losing ourselves in negative thoughts and emotions?
Understanding Emotionally Immature Parents: Signs and Solutions
What are the signs of having been brought up by emotionally immature parents, and how can we begin to heal from our experiences? Let’s talk about it.
What Does Inner Relationship Focusing Help With?
I often get asked about what Focusing helped with. And so, I made a Q&A video to discuss this inner work at length. I’ve also provided a transcript of the video below for easy reference.
Silence, Solitude and Self: Why is it important to spend time alone?
Have you stretched yourself so thin that you are out of touch with who you are? What can silence and being with yourself teach?
Gratitude - Your superpower
We tend to focus on what we don't have. This scarcity mindset leads us to comparison. Honing the power of gratitude takes us away from this.
We All Have Lied: Reasons Why We Avoid Self-honesty
Stop the Leak and Recharge Your Inner Battery
How to Build a relationship with your inner critic
Is Forgiving Difficult for You? Try These 3 Tools
If being unforgiving is weighing you down, here are three tools to help you find forgiveness in your heart.
Burnout? Yes! My Story & What I learned
Today I share my burnout story, how I found myself depleted and what I did to find my way back into creativity and lightness.
What Drives You to Procrastinate?
What Drains Your Inner Battery?
Prevent energy leaks. The reason why you’re drained isn’t always because of work.
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